Ever since the dawning of time, since male and female relationships were developed we’ve been trying to figure out how to get along. Often the journey is not all peaches and cream, but we can get through it and land on a soft spot. The trouble comes in when you have too much expectation, or build rigid goals about a person. The thing is you have to be pretty open minded about people to get into a relationship and if you aren’t you will find yourself in a relationship that doesn’t last. Often however you find yourself trying to figure out how to get your ex boyfriend back. Well the answer is simple. Don’t expect him to be anything but himself and let him be himself.