I’ve let so many things go during this week of heartache. My gay mormon friend said she wants to come over and help me get caught up on housework. That’s really nice of her. I hope I can return the favor for my gay mormon friend. I’ve just spent so many hours crying for my friend, for her husband, and for her children. She has gotten so much praise for her strength and I hope her husband realizes too how much he is valued. He is just as amazing for the support he has given and it is just as great of a loss for him. What a miserable position to be in.